hello?

i’m the leader, he’s the follower. so i know i have to make the first move.

lately, we’ve been so busy that we even when both of us are home for the evening, we barely spend more then 3 minutes together in the same room before we retire to our bed at night.

and trust me… ain’t no action happenin’ there! more like me falling asleep while he tinkers away on the lap top.

we’ve been really neglecting the ‘nurturing’ part of our marriage. i have to admit that it sort of scares me because it’s been like this more and more ever since the beginning of this year.

is this marriage? is this normal? are we suppose to feel like an old comfortable pair of slippers this soon? or socks? or mitts? or undies… no. perhaps the last one is one we shouldn’t list.

maybe i’ve been too bitchy lately. or rushed to do too much at once. maybe he’s been distant because i haven’t been approachable.

it’s not irrational. i have been focused on ‘getting things done.’ it’s been put oof too long… but now that i see a light at the end of the tunnel, i see two individuals, living in the same home…

totally oblivious of what the other one may be thinking.

ugh. i’ve got to do something about it before it’s too late.

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